The topic is love.

A little light reading on the nuances of love and relationships. Follow our blog and embrace the everyday fun, excitement and challenges of looking for love in the modern world.

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The topic is love.

A little light reading on the nuances of love and relationships. Follow our blog and embrace the everyday fun, excitement and challenges of looking for love in the modern world.

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Spring Into Love: Why This Season Is the Perfect Time to Refresh Your Dating Life

As the days get longer and the weather warms up, something shifts in the air. Spring has always been associated with renewal, fresh starts, and new possibilities—and that includes your love life. If dating has felt stagnant, frustrating, or simply not a priority over the winter months, spring is the perfect time to reset your mindset and approach. At Carolinas Matchmaker, we often see an increase in new relationships forming this time of year—and it’s not by accident. Here’s why spring is one…

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How to Keep a New Relationship Alive During the Holiday Season

The holiday season is one of the most magical—and sometimes chaotic—times of the year. Between family gatherings, travel plans, office parties, and endless to-do lists, even the strongest relationships can feel the pressure. But if you're in a new…

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How to Learn to Trust Again After Being Burned in a Relationship

If you’ve been betrayed, lied to, ghosted, or emotionally hurt in a previous relationship, learning to trust again can feel daunting—if not impossible. But the truth is: healing is possible. And trust is something that can be rebuilt—with the right…

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Tips for Dating After a Divorce: A Guide to Getting Back Out There

Going through a divorce can feel like an emotional rollercoaster—but finding love again doesn’t have to be. As a professional matchmaker who has a masters degree in Social Work and over 19 years of experience, Laurie Berzack has worked with…

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How to Spot a Narcissist – And Why We’re Passionate About Screening Them Out

How to Spot a Narcissist – And Why We’re Passionate About Screening Them Out Dating today—whether you're in Charlotte, Raleigh, Charleston, or anywhere in the Carolinas—can be exciting, full of promise, and sometimes, painfully confusing. One of the…

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Why Chemistry Isn’t Everything: The Science of Long-Term Compatibility

When it comes to dating, we’ve all been told to wait for that magical “spark.” You know—the butterflies, the instant attraction, the can’t-keep-your-eyes-off-each-other feeling. While chemistry is an exciting part of romance, it’s not always the…

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The Psychology of Attraction: What Really Makes Someone Date-Worthy?

Attraction is often thought of as a mysterious force—something that just happens when you meet the right person. But the truth is, there’s actual science behind what makes someone date-worthy. From psychology to biology, attraction is influenced by…

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Breaking Down Matchmaking Myths

When it comes to finding love, the idea of working with a matchmaker often comes with misconceptions. From assumptions about who uses matchmaking services to misunderstandings about the process, these myths can deter people from exploring a method…

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The Best Local Spots for a Romantic First Date in Charlotte

Planning the perfect first date can be both exciting and nerve-wracking. You want the setting to be just right—somewhere that fosters connection, sets a romantic tone, and showcases the best of Charlotte. As Carolinas Matchmaker, we’ve curated a…

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How to Embrace Being Single on Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day often feels like it’s reserved for couples, but the truth is, it’s a day to celebrate love in all its forms—including self-love. If you’re single this Valentine’s Day, there’s no need to feel left out or discouraged. Instead, use…

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