Concierge-level service for what matters most.

We are all hardwired with a need for happiness, love and connection. Sharing your life with someone can elevate the way you see the world, and that is worth prioritizing. Carolinas Matchmaker was built to help busy, successful singles find love and fulfillment.

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Concierge-level service for what matters most.

We are all hardwired with a need for happiness, love and connection. Sharing your life with someone can elevate the way you see the world, and that is worth prioritizing. Carolinas Matchmaker was built to help busy, successful singles find love and fulfillment.

We offer a tiered array of services, including boutique matchmaking, targeted dating strategy sessions, and online dating management.

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Matchmaking

Our matchmaking service is for highly discerning individuals who are looking for the needle in a haystack.

We work with a select group of clients at any given time, offering concierge-level service and attention. Our approach is proprietary and personalized, first diving deep to understand your hopes, your values, and exactly what you’re looking for. Next, we customize a strategic plan and vet potential matches with you in mind. And while our process is meticulous, the experience is enjoyable. Here, dating becomes fun again, because we take the guesswork out. Every match is carefully curated, kicking your search into high gear quickly, strategically and effectively.

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Online Dating Management

If you’re getting some traction with the dating apps but having trouble converting to real dates, our online dating management service may be for you.

Online dating can be overwhelming to navigate, not to mention the emotional rollercoaster of “meeting” potential matches, getting your hopes up and managing unmet expectations. Laurie and her team offer online dating management as a tool for optimizing online profiles, crafting effective communications to build connections, determining which prospects are worth exploring, and putting your best foot forward when it’s finally time to meet. From styling and professional photography all the way to running background checks and setting up the date, our approach provides different levels of support to meet any needs, from simple coaching sessions to full-service management.

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Dating Strategy Sessions

Dating strategy sessions are for people who are finding dates on their own, but want to turn first dates into exclusive relationships.

Laurie offers one-on-one coaching sessions to boost confidence, break out of old cycles, and start succeeding in the dating world. Whether you’d like to fine-tune your online dating profile, debrief previous relationships or understand your own attachment style, working with an expert like Laurie can be both eye opening and life changing. Offered as single one-hour sessions, Laurie will create a strategy that positions you for successful dating. Whatever your concerns may be, address them with a true expert and start dating differently.

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How Does It Work?

Everyone begins by completing our confidential profile. It provides detailed information about who you are and what you’re looking for. Being part of our exclusive network makes you a prospective match for any of our private clients. If we determine that you could be a good match for one of our members, we’ll be in touch. If you’d like to apply for matchmaking, online dating management or dating strategy sessions, we’d love to discuss whether we could be a good fit for you.

If you’d like to apply for matchmaking, online dating management or dating strategy sessions, we’d love to discuss whether we could be a good fit for you.

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FAQs

You have questions, we have answers.

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Dating apps can be overwhelming and time consuming. Here, we do the vetting and screening, then we curate intentional matches just for you. No swiping, no guesswork, just real people, real introductions, and a human-led process designed for building meaningful relationships here in the Carolinas.

Once we decide Carolinas Matchmaker is a good fit for you, we start with an in-depth consultation to understand your relationship history, values, lifestyle, and exactly what you’re looking for. From there, we curate personalized introductions, provide constructive feedback, and offer guidance along the way.

We concierge the entire introduction and date planning, providing everything you need ahead of time so that you simply show up and enjoy. After each date we gather feedback from both parties. If it’s a match, then together you start planning the second date. If it’s not, we begin looking for the next possibility. Love is the goal, and our success is measured by your happiness and fulfillment.

We prioritize thoughtful, well-matched introductions over quantity. For some clients, it takes only one match to find that special someone. Others require more time (and more introductions). Love is personal, and so our process must be as well. Each client’s experience looks a bit different, but rest assured that once you meet someone who you are interested in dating more intentionally, we’ll discuss if and when to pause on introductions.

Yes, guidance and feedback are pivotal to our clients’ success.

Absolutely, privacy and discretion are core to our process.

We find most of our eligible singles from our constantly growing private network. All efforts, including Laurie’s podcast, TV appearances and massive social media following, drive quality singles to be part of our exclusive network, allowing us to offer an unparalleled experience for our clients. We also recruit through personal contacts, marketing, blogs, Web SEO, word-of-mouth, recruiters and referrals of all kinds.

Our screening process takes place in person or via Zoom and is quite intensive, often lasting an hour. We get to know you, understand your dating goals and relationship history, and ensure that interests and values are aligned so that we are not only comfortable, but confident, in making the match for our client (and you!).

No. Our exclusive network is private and completely confidential. Only members of the Carolinas Matchmaker staff can view the profiles.

Where you are today doesn’t have to be where you are forever.

Fill out our confidential profile to become part of our private network.

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